Monday, December 26, 2005
Friends have that amazing aptitude to conceal stress, depression, bad moods and to leave you feeling all patched up. you have fun with them, chuckle with them (or at them!) But as with all relationships, companionships go through jagged times too and sometimes they also end.
True friend is someone who can tell you what everybody else is anxious to tell you (because you might get pikon and hurt).Like my friends during my gradeschool days. A true friend will tell you "oi, hija nayayabangan kami sayo" Ouch that tingles. But wouldnt you rather hear it from your friend straight up than hear it through the gossip? if thats the thruth youll definitely do good about it.
I once gave someone that right and almost regretted it the following day when she told me that I had a bad outlook and that I was just jealous. it made me apprehended that she was actually helping me, and I really respected the frankness in our friendship.
So from then, I finally promised that I shouldnt tell what I feel directly to that person and just tell it to my other friends. But why cant other people understand this? Well, yah each of us has an own opinion about it, but do you think it is proper to call you as a backstabber? Well I guess not! - If she calls it "backstabb" then for me its not! I just dont want to ruin our frienship, un lang yun!
-Dont think that Im being sarcastic and all. cause im not.
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